I've been bi my whole life, I've known since a child that I was interested in both, from the very earliest sexual awakening. Romantically I love only women, love my wife. But sexually, I love to go down on both, I have a severe rimming fetish, and I'm obsessed with anal, giving to women, receiving from both. I had a butt fetish before I knew you could have sex in it! LOL. In the 1960's in a Catholic school it was strictly taboo (insert irony rimshot sound). I married a woman who also had some bi experience, claimed to like it in me. Thought I'd married the perfect woman. Turns out she hates it, and while she still has her feelings for woman she'll never act on it. So for most of my entire life I've had to hide it, all through school, the Army, from friends, everyone, it's one big act, all the time. Only a few people know the "real" me. I find it exhausting to be around people because acting takes more energy than I care to put out. It's still not acceptable even as gay marriage is legal. You get the "gay but in denial" bullshit. This site has shown me that there are WAY more bi people than you might think. Rant over...back to perving!